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FIRST PERSON SINGULAR, Stephen M. Johnson, Ph.D. (1977). Y e s , i t ' s o l d , b u t i t ' s s t i l l g o o d . LIFE LESSONS: 50 THINGS I LEARNED FROM MY DIVORCE, Beth Joselow (1994). W is e & p r a c tic a l a d v ic e ,

d ir e c te d t o w o m e n b u t a p p lie s to a n y o n e .

s u c c in c tly s ta t e d ,

DIVORCE & NEW BEGINNINGS, Genevieve Clapp, Ph.D. (1992).

s e p a r a t io n / d iv o r c e p r o c e s s , i n c l u d i n g t h e s t e p fa m i li e s . a s p e c ts , p lu s p a r en t in g & r e m a r ria g e .

D e t a ile d & p r a c tic a l g u id e f ro m b e g i n n in g t o e n d o f t h e l a t e s t r e s e a r c h , e m o t i o n a l r e a c t i o n s , b u i l d i n g a n e w s i n g l e l i f e , p a re n t in g & E m p h a s is o n th e le g a l

ANSWERS: A DIVORCE/SEPARATION SURVIVAL HANDBOOK, Divorce Support Services, Inc. (1991). SCENES FROM A DIVORCE, Neil Paylor & Barry Head (1983). F o r f ri e n d s & r e la t iv e s . CRAZY TIME, Abigail Trafford (1982). B a s e d o n p e r s o n a l e x p e r ie n c e & i n t e r v ie w s . HOW TO BREAK YOUR ADDICTION TO A PERSON, Howard M. Halpern, Ph.D. (1982). W h e n & w h y REBUILDING WHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP ENDS, Bruce Fisher (1981). S t a g e s o f r e c o ve r y fo r y o u

m u s t - re a d !

love doesn't work. & y o u r ch ild r e n -- a n o th e r

LIVING ALONE & LIKING IT, Lynn Shahan (1981). P r a c t i c a l a d v i c e f o r t a k i n g c a r e o f y o u r s e l f . THE DIVORCED WOMAN'S HANDBOOK, Jane Wilkie (1980). N a m e c h a n g e s , c r e d it , in s u r a n ce & m o r e . SINGLE AFTER 50, Adeline McConnell & Beverly Anderson (1978). L i f e i s n o t o v e r ! LIVING & LOVING AFTER DIVORCE, Catherine Napolitane & Victoria Pellegrino (1977). D i re c te d t o w o m e n ; a ls o b y M s . P e lle g r in o & H e l e n D e R o s i s , THE BOOK OF HOPE (1976), a b o u t de p r e s sio n . GROWING THROUGH DIVORCE, Jim Smoke (1976). F r o m a C h r is tia n p e r sp e c tiv e . HOW TO SURVIVE THE LOSS OF A LOVE, Melba Colgrove, Ph.D., Harold Bloomfield, M.D., & Peter McWilliams (1976). A s h o r t b o o k

to c ry w ith.

MARITAL SEPARATION, Robert Weiss (1975). E x c e lle n t o ve r v ie w o t h e rs w h o ' ve b e e n th e r e ; a ls o GOING IT ALONE (1979).

o f a ll y o u c a n e x p e c t to e x p e r ie n c e , w i th m a n y q u o t e s fr o m

LEGAL HOW TO GET A DIVORCE, Richard Granat (1994). P r a c t i c a l h a n d b o o k f o r D C , M D & V A r e s i d e n t s ; i n c l u d e s s a m p l e f o r m s . THE DIVORCE HANDBOOK, James T. Friedman (1982). C o n c i s e , e x p e r t a n s w e r s to 2 2 5 q u e s t io n s . CONSULTATION WITH A DIVORCE LAWYER, Bernard E. Clair & Anthony R. Daniele (1982). D e t a ile d g u id e t o se t tl e m e n t

p r o s p e c t iv e p o s t - d iv o r c e p r o b le m s .

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HOW TO WIN CUSTODY, Louis Kiefer, J.D. (1982). T i p s o n b u ild in g & n e g o t ia t in g HOW TO HANDLE YOUR DIVORCE, Harold Mitnick (1981). S t e p -b y - st e p a d vic e , THE CUSTODY HANDBOOK, Persia Woolley (1979). C o m p r e h e n s i v e s u r v e y p lu s PERSONAL GROWTH

your case. s e tt lin g v s . f ig h t in g . worksheets.

IRON JOHN, Robert Bly (1990). W h a t it m e a n s to b e a m a n . HOMECOMING, John Bradshaw (1990). R e c l a im i n g & c h a m p i o n in g y o u r in n e r c hild ; a ls o CREATING LOVE (1992). THE NEW PEOPLEMAKING, Virginia Satir (1988). R e vis io n o f th e 1 9 7 2 cla ss ic w h ich e xa m in e s t h e fa m ily fro m a th e ra p ist 's

pe rs pe ctiv e; inc lud es nu m er ou s e xe rc ise s & an un de rs ta nd ing of sin gle pa re nt & ble nd ed fa m ilies .

NECESSARY LOSSES, Judith Viorst (1986). T h e

u p in o r d e r t o g r o w .

l o ve s , illu s io n s , d e p e n d e n c ie s & i m p o s s ib le e x p e c ta t io n s th a t a ll o f u s m u s t g iv e

WOMEN WHO LOVE TOO MUCH, Robin Norwood (1985).

H o w c h i ld h o o d p a tt e rn s o f r e la t in g le a d t o u n h e a lt h y , a d d i c ti v e r e la t io n s h i p s in a d u l t h o o d ; i n c lu d e s s p e c i f ic p r o g r a m f o r re c o v e r y .

ANGER, Carol Tavris (1982). N e w c o n c e p t s a b o u t h o w i t a ff e c ts o u r li v e s . WHEN BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE, Harold S. Kushner (1981). S o m e t im e s t h e re is n o r e as o n . THE PSYCHOLOGY OF ROMANTIC LOVE, Nathaniel Branden (1980). W h y i t g r o w s & w h y i t d i e s . THE ROAD LESS TRAVELED, M. Scott Peck, M.D. (1978). A m u s t- re a d ! WHOEVER SAID LIFE IS FAIR?, Sara Kay Cohen (1977). G u i d e t o g r o w i n g t h ro u g h l if e 's i n ju s t ic e s . IF YOU MEET THE BUDDHA ON THE ROAD, KILL HIM!, Sheldon B. Kopp (1972). A n o t h e r m u s t - re a d ! RELATIONSHIPS NEGOTIATING LOVE, Riki Robbins Jones, Ph.D. (1995).

d i ff e re n c e s . style s, em otion al ne ed s & m od es of b eh av ior. E ss en tial c om m un ica tion sk ills fo r m en & w om en to re so lve th eir H o w t o c o u n te r a c t d if fe r e n c e s in c o m m u n ic a tio n

MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS, John Gray, Ph.D. (1992).

KEEPING THE LOVE YOU FIND, Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. (1992). B r e a k p a s t p a t te r n s , & l e a rn t o a ch ie v e la s tin g lo v e . GREAT CONNECTIONS: SMALL TALK & NETWORKING FOR BUSINESSPEOPLE, Anne Baber & Lynn Waymon (1991).

t h e se t e ch n iq u e s in a n y s o c ia l s it u a tio n .

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RELATIONSHIPS (cont'd) YOU JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND: WOMEN & MEN IN CONVERSATION, Deborah Tannen, Ph.D. (1990).

d i ff e re n c e s i n c o m m u n i c a ti o n s ty l e s c a n im p r o v e o u r r e la t io n s h i p s . U n d e r s ta n d in g

THE DANCE OF INTIMACY, Harriet Goldhor Lerner, Ph.D. (1989). W o m a n ' s g u id e t o co u r a g e o u s a c ts r e la t io n s h ip s ; a ls o THE DANCE OF ANGER (1985). A FINE ROMANCE, Judith Sills (1987). T h e s t a g e s o f c o u r t s h i p , f r o m m e e t i n g t o m a r r i a g e . SMART WOMEN/FOOLISH CHOICES, Dr. Connell Cowan & Dr. Melvyn Kinder (1985). H o w t o f in d t h e r ig h t m e n

ones.

o f c h a n g e in k e y

& a v o id t h e w ro n g

DO I HAVE TO GIVE UP ME TO BE LOVED BY YOU?, Jordan Paul, Ph.D. & Margaret Paul, Ph.D. (1983).

t o b rin g in t im a c y i n s te a d o f e m o t io n a l d is ta n c e .

W o r k in g t h r o u g h c o n f li c t

MAKING PEACE WITH YOUR PARENTS, Harold Bloomfield, M.D. & Leonard Felder, Ph.D. (1983).

f u n d a m e n t a l r e la t io n s h i p c a n e n r i c h a ll o th e r s .

C o m in g t o t e rm s w i th y o u r m o s t

THE INNER MALE, Herb Goldberg (1987). O v e r c o m i n g ro a d b l o c k s t o in t im a c y ; a ls o THE NEW MALE FEMALE RELATIONSHIP (1983), THE NEW MALE (1979) a n d THE HAZARDS OF BEING MALE (1976). INTIMATE STRANGERS, Lillian B. Rubin (1983). M e n & w o m e n & i n t im a c y . STRAIGHT TALK, Sherod Miller, Ph.D., Daniel Wackman, Ph.D., Elam Nunnally, Ph.D. & Carol Saline (1981). G e t c lo s e r t o o th e r s b y

s a y in g w h a t y o u re a lly m e a n .

GAMES DIVORCED PEOPLE PLAY, Dr. Melvyn A. Berke & Joanne B. Grant (1981).

f ri e n d s & l o v e r s .

C o m m o n s t ru g g le s w i th o u r e xe s , k id s , n e w

BRIEF ENCOUNTERS, Emily Coleman & Betty Edwards (1980). Q u a l i t y - - w i t h o r w i t h o u t f o r e v e r . THE DANCE-AWAY LOVER, Daniel Goldstine, Katherine Larner, Shirley Zuckerman & Hilary Goldstine (1977).

s e x & m a r r ia g e .

R o l e s w e p la y in lo v e ,

LEARNING TO LOVE AGAIN, Mel Krantzler (1977). G u i d e lin e s to w a r d a n e w , cr e a tiv e c o m m it m e n t af te r d iv o r ce ; a ls o CREATIVE DIVORCE (1973). CONTACT: THE FIRST FOUR MINUTES, Leonard Zunin, M.D. (1972). M a k e f ir s t i m p r e s s i o n s w o r k . PAIRING, Dr. George R. Bach & Ronald M. Deutsch (1970). A p r o c e s s f o r a c h ie v i n g g e n u i n e in t im a c y ; a l s o b y D r . B a c h , CREATIVE AGGRESSION (1974) a n d THE INTIMATE ENEMY (1968).

PARENTING THE DIVORCED PARENT, Stephanie Marston (1994). S u c c e s s s t r a t e g i e s f o r r a i s i n g w e l l -a d j u s te d c h i ld r e n i n a d iv o r c e d f a m i ly . VICKI LANSKY'S DIVORCE BOOK FOR PARENTS, Vicki Lansky (1989). C o m p r e h e n s i v e & p r a c t ic a l g u id e f o r h e lp in g y o u r

ch ildre n c op e w ith d ivo rce & its a fterm ath .

MY KIDS DON'T LIVE WITH ME ANYMORE, Doreen Virtue (1988). F o r n o n c u s t o d i a l m o m s a n d d a d s . GROWING UP DIVORCED, Linda Bird Francke (1983). H e l p y o u r c h i ld , fr o m i n f a n c y th r o u g h t e e n s . DIVORCE WITHOUT VICTIMS, Stuart Berger, M.D. (1983). M o r e h e lp o n e a s in g c h ild r e n 's p a in . MOM & DAD ARE DIVORCED, BUT I'M NOT, Hal W. Anderson & Gail S. Anderson (1981). I n clu d e s c h a p te r s

p a r t- tim e p a r e n t in g .

o n lo n g - d is ta n c e &

101 WAYS TO BE A LONG-DISTANCE SUPER-DAD, George Newman (1981). T h e t it le s a y s it a ll. MOM'S HOUSE, DAD'S HOUSE, Isolina Ricci (1980). E x c e l le n t g u i d e o n s h a r e d c u s t o d y . JOINT CUSTODY & CO-PARENTING, Miriam Galper (1980). A s o u r c e b o o k f o r s h a r in g e q u a l l y . SINGLE PARENTS ARE PEOPLE, TOO, Carol Vejvoda Murdock (1980). M a l e , f e m a le , cu s to d ia l o r n o t. SINGLE FATHER'S HANDBOOK, Richard H. Gatley, Ph.D. & David Koulack, Ph.D. (1979). F o r m e n w h o a r e

c h ild r e n .

s e p a ra t e d f r o m t h e ir

WHAT ABOUT THE CHILDREN?, Francine Spilke (1979).

r e la t io n s h ip s , in c lu d in g s te p - p a re n t in g .

T ellin g t he ch ildr en , d ec idin g c us to dy & w or kin g o ut ne w fa m ily

FOR DIVORCED FATHERS ONLY, Stuart Kahan (1978).

C o p i n g e m o t io n a l ly , le g a l ly & f in a n c i a ll y .

FOR CHILDREN WHEN DIVORCE HITS HOME, Beth Joselow & Thea Joselow (1996). F o r t e e n s . DINOSAURS DIVORCE: A GUIDE FOR CHANGING FAMILIES, Laurene K. Brown & Marc Brown (1988). A g e s 3 + . HOW IT FEELS WHEN PARENTS DIVORCE, Jill Krementz (1984). N i n e t e e n b o y s & g i r ls , a g e d 7 - 1 6 , s h a re t h e ir fe e l in g s . MEGAN'S BOOK OF DIVORCE, Erica Jong (1984). A k i d 's p i c tu r e b o o k f o r a d u lt s . HOW TO LIVE WITH A SINGLE PARENT, Sara Gilbert (1982). F o r y o u n g a d u l t s & p a r e n t s . THE KIDS' BOOK OF DIVORCE, The Unit at Fayerweather Street School (1981). A g e s 1 1 - 1 4 . MY PARENTS ARE DIVORCED, TOO, Bonnie Robson, M.D. (1979). F o r t e e n s . THE FAMILY THAT CHANGED, Francine Spilke (1979). F o r p re - s ch o o l; a ls o WHAT ABOUT ME?, f o r a g e s 9 -1 5 . DIVORCE IS A GROWN-UP PROBLEM, Janet Sinberg (1978). P i c tu r e b o o k , w i th b i b li o g ra p h y . TWO HOMES TO LIVE IN, Barbara Shook Hazen (1978). A g e s 4 - 8 . TALKING ABOUT DIVORCE & SEPARATION: A DIALOGUE BETWEEN PARENT & CHILD, Earl A. Grollman (1975). Simple

straightforward words to use when telling & talking to your children.

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